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音频中涉及的人名：Dr. Milan（米兰博士） Kay Yerkovich（凯•叶尔科维奇）。
答案和解析来啦：
When it comes to relationships, everyone has their own way of showing love.
说到人际关系，每个人都有自己表达爱的方式。
Sometimes these behaviors and thought processes can be negative rather than positive.
有时，这些行为举止和思维过程可能是消极的，而不是积极的。
According to a study, children who had a secure relationship with their parents growing up tend to have better interpersonal relationships later on,
研究表明，与父母关系稳定的孩子，有利于日后建立良好的人际关系，
while children who had more unstable relationships are more likely to have unhealthy behaviors and instability in relationships.
而与父母关系不稳定的孩子，更有可能有不良的行为习惯和不稳定的关系。
Dr. Milan and Kay Yerkovich determined that there are five different love styles that often are determined by your childhood.
米兰博士和凯•叶尔科维奇认为，这五种表达爱的方式取决于童年的经历。
So, what does each love style say about your childhood?
那么，每种爱情风格对应怎样的童年呢?
One: The Avoider
第一：逃避型
People with the avoider type lifestyle often come off as distant or unengaged.
逃避型生活方式的人常常给人冷漠或不投入的感觉。
They don’t allow themselves to feel emotions in order to protect themselves and often feel uncomfortable when other people around them get emotional.
为了保护自己，他们不允许自己有情绪，当周围的人情绪激动时，他们常常感到不舒服。
Avoiders value their personal space away from other people.
逃避型的人重视私人空间，远离他人。
If you have the avoider love style, as a child, you may have grown up in a home that didn’t show a lot of affection that put more focus on being independent and self-reliant.
如果你是逃避型风格的一员，你可能成长在一个没有太多感情表达的家庭，而是更注重独立和自立。
If you are upset by something, you may not have gotten the comfort you needed whether it be emotional or physical.
如果你因某事感到心烦，那么无论是情感上还是身体上，你都可能无法获得所需的安慰。
解析在这里哦！
1. interpersonal，形容词，表示“人际的”，比如：Training in interpersonal skills is essential. （各种人际交往技巧的训练是非常必要的。）
2. avoiders，名词，单词原形为：avoider，表示“回避者、逃避者”。
3. unengaged，形容词，表示“未投入的”，同源词：engage。
4. affection，名词，表示“感情”，比如：Caroline is the object of his affections.
（卡罗琳是他感情的归属。）
终于更新了😊